Always and, in all ways…
Give people much more than they bargained for,
or, give people much more than they expected to receive…
and, be caring, cheerful, honest, and, kind while doing so !!!
Only get involved with a man, or with a woman
that you love to eXchange with,
because as you get older, you will also become smarter,
and, this will result in developing yourself into a wiser being,
and, as such, a wise man, or a wise women requires a circle of friends
who also possess these rare talents of being both conversational
and, energetically able to put ‘good energy’ into the friendship equation through having highly developed interpersonal skills.
Do NOT believe all the things you hear, or you see,
get yourself to a state of ‘knowing’.
Do NOT spend all the energy or money you have,
save some for a rainy day.
Remember, love is the end result…
so, you must NOT only be loveable, but, also loving…
and, when you declare, ‘I love you ,’
really put all your energy into that eXchange…
so, the other people really know, your ‘we love you’ is ‘real’.
Always look other people in the eye, with both your eyes…
and, tell them eXactly what you ‘feel’…
if you have done something ‘bad’, admit it
and, really put some energy behind your statements.
If you really truly are sorry … eXpress that with all that you are
and, make a declaration, that you will never run over that ‘bad road’ twice.
Never, jump the gun, it takes approx 360 days to get to know someone, so, do NOT be running off, and, getting yourself tied into something that is expensive to get out of — living with someone, or, getting married is a very serious commitment — think before you leap into something
KNOW, that you can like someone at first sight,
however, real love takes a lot of effort and time to develop !!!
Be supportive towards others, and, help them to find their dreams and their passions…
it is NEVER kind to laugh at, or ridicule someone else who has a dream…especially, if you do NOT have your own dreams,
NEVER rain on someone else’s parade.
Realize, it is very, very necessary to have dreams…and,
you can, will, and, shall dig deeply into yourself to uncover them…
if will is the way.
The only people who love, also run the risk of being hurt…
so, energetically express all that you are, into your equations of love,
because that is the only way, to be ‘whole’ and ‘complete’.
If you are going to eXchange with others,
eXchange fairly – you are NOT always going to agree with others, however, make the fight, a fair fight…
and, remember ‘words’ can NOT be recalled…
if two people need to fight, then both of them are fools !!!
Think, before you speak … and, speak only after you think !!!
If your words are NOT kind, or, you feel the need to call someone else a ‘bad name’ – hold your tongue !!!
NEVER judge someone based on family, or based on friends.
Slow down your eXchange…so, others can have the ability to process the pieces of information, along with the things you are trying to tell them, 80% of communication, is actually NON verbal.
Measure three times, but, cut only once.
When someone asks you for your input,
always know, you are NOT required to provide it …
so, if you do NOT immediately want to answer a question…
you might want to put a smile on your face,
and, ask them, “what would be the great purpose, for you knowing the answer to that question”…
and, wait for them to give you an answer…
before you proceed further.
Remember, nothing ventured is nothing gained…
be willing to factor risk into every equation you eXchange within
~but do it in ways that it is fair and equitable to both sides of the equation.
Always, and, in all ways, play the game with a good attitude,
and, fairly, when you lose, lose as graciously as you win,
it is NOT whether you win, or you lose that counts,
it is ALWAYS, and in all ways how you play the game.
Remember, that an investment of time into others,
is one of the only things that pays back worthwhile dividends.
If you are going to invest your time,
choose to be totally present in the moment.
Get rid of your cell phone when you are having a ‘good’ conversation or a ‘good’ eXchange or a ‘good’ time with others,
there will come a time, when those others will no longer be present,
and, you will wish you had NOT wasted one oz. of energy
on anyone else but them, when they are gone!!!
Wonder why you likely lose your job, or, your kid loses their job,
over, and, over again ?
Well, a good employer is NOT going to tell you to park your cell phone while you are working, instead, they will say NOTHING,
they will begin to realize that you are very likely dumb,
and, a total waste of their breath, and, their time,
so, they will NOT need someone like you,
who is more intent on your personal life,
than, where you might go to in your business life,
that texting on the employers time,
a smart employer, will see to it,
that you just do NOT fit into their schedule.
Run your personal life, and, your private life the same…
have integrity, and, always tell the truth.
Remember the great lessons of life:
Acceptance & Appreciation
Bravery & Courage
Compassion & Courtesy
Forgiveness & Grace
Honour & Humility
Patience & Perseverance
Respect for Authority & Respect for Elders
Which will result in your own knowing & understanding of:
The importance of giving of your time unselfishly,
and, being in loving service to others .
Be responsible for all of your actions, ALWAYS !!!
Learn to love yourself, and, put yourself first,
if you are NOT strong, you can NOT be strong for others,
so, pay attention to everything you choose to feed,
both your mind, and, your body, along with your soul.
Value your business associates, as, well as your friends,
treat others as you like to be treated,
and, if you can NOT do that,
kindly remove yourself from their lives,
and, set them free.
If you make an ‘error’ – own it
and, admit it…everyone makes mistakes
however, be smart enough to know
there are ways to fix it, and, do so immediately,
take steps to make sure you do NOT repeat the same mistakes
over, and, over again.
Get up in the morning…and, do good things for yourself.
Go to bed…and, ask, ask, ask, to dream.
Imagine the power, when The Dream, along with The Dreamer become one, and, the same !!!
Do NOT sleep your life away…
instead, command and demand,
in 100% alignment with your missions, your purposes
and your tasks, that you are able to remember what those are, through the state of ‘dreaming’
and, ask, ask, ask, to allow yourself to remember
what that is, during your 3d waking states.
Feed your body, mind and soul…with positive feelings, and, thoughts
Spread your good energy around !!!
Do something everyday for someone else who is NOT expecting it!!!
Try to put a smile on your face, instead of a frown
– as, the energy of it, will shine through everything you do.
Learn to love your alone time…
spend a small amount of time daily, alone.
It is good to learn how to breathe,
consider doing tai chi, or yoga, or even just basic stretching…
stay active !!!
Do NOT live in the past…
for THE PAST does NOT in anyway govern your futures…
command and demand, in 100% alignment
with your original missions, original purposes,
and, original tasks – ask, ask, ask, to discard those things that are
NOT within this alignment – allow anything you have chosen to amend, that is in alignment to stay – discard everything else…
iT iS TiME, TO CHOSE TO ALLOW YOUR WiLL as, THE WAY !!!
The full moon is a time to discard all those things that NO longer serve your highest good, and, will lead you back on track to discover your real missions, your real purposes, and, your real tasks !!!
Command and Demand, that iNTO ‘real’ action…
WiLL iT TO BE…SO, iT WiLL BE, and, so iT iS !!!
~susan lynne schwenger
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